Hello, and thanks for this amazing site. I am a 17 year old guy in a
Thanks for this thoughtful question, and I'm sorry for what you're all going through!
However I'm not convinced this is, in the end, a 'philosophical' matter -- it sounds more like one that's for the professional psychologists and therapists .... and I wonder if it might be useful even for YOU to consult with one, to get some useful advice about how to deal with this complicated situation! (There are some philosophers with some psychology expertise, but I don't know if any of the panelists on this site are those!)
best of luck!